Wednesday, June 1, 2022

New Month, New Life

For many years, I had the practice of starting a new life on the first day of each month. It's too daunting to start a whole entire new life on some random day partway through some random week; I needed to start a new life on a day of some significance, but not extraordinary significance, or I'd have to languish too long in the old life awaiting this rare fateful moment. So the first day of each month proved to be just right. 

A new life meant: eating better! exercising more! no Sudoku puzzles on the I-pad! And most of all: making good on my commitment to write for an hour each day. Alas, the new life invariably petered out partway through the month, but I truly believe I owe everything I've ever achieved to my willingness to start my life anew on a regular basis.

Lately, EVERYTHING else in my life has petered out ever since I met MY TRUE LOVE (see previous post!). He, too, has neglected many things in his own life as well, consumed as we both are with this miracle the universe has sent our way. We both agreed that this was all right. After all, how many times does anybody have a chance to luxuriate in the intoxication of a new romance? 

But now, two and a half months in, it does seem as if it we might consider giving some attention to those things that had once given our lives meaning and were now quietly whimpering from our neglect. For me, chief among these is writing.

So today I took my beloved hourglass to David's apartment and set it on a stool by his fireplace. (Among his many other gifts, he is a fabulous fire-builder, from heating a past home entirely by firewood). It was time to return to putting one word after another for  a full sixty minutes.


Oh, and among his many other gifts, he is a fabulous bread baker who just celebrated his fiftieth anniversary of baking all of his family's bread, so while I was writing, he was baking. Bliss!


I wrote a couple of pages on what is sort of a work-in-progress, or would be if I had been doing any work on it so that it could have any progress. But today I did. And I even sort of liked the pages. And the only way to produce pages I DO like is to slog through scribbling pages I DON'T like, so it's good either way. 
 
PLUS, today I signed up for the every-other-month Poem-a-Day online group hosted by brilliant and beloved poet Molly Fisk. I wrote a witty poem entitled "Mrs. Google Map Lady" for the June 1 prompt and posted it to the group, and so far five people have liked it and three people loved it and several wrote comments, too!

PLUS, I wrote this blog post!

And I still love David as much as ever, and he still loves me as much as ever!

So right now I'm loving this month's new life. 


19 comments:

  1. Yay!! Go Claudia. Cheers to your relatively new inspiration😀

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    1. It feels so good to be inspired to write again!

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  2. I am so very happy for you!

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  3. I’m so happy you have found each other. ❤️❤️🌱

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    1. Thank you! It really does feel like a miracle.

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  4. I am so happy for you both!

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    1. Thank you so much! It feels so strange to be so in love with a man who also happens to be equally in love with me!

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  5. I love this Claudia. It's fun to remember the early days of a relationship.. I am going to take your idea. I too need a new beginning each month! Enjoy to the fullest!

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    1. Thank you so much! And yay for new beginnings!

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  6. Love! love! love!

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  7. Every time I read one of your blog posts or hear you speak you bring my life joy. You are full of so much optimism it just lights up my life! Thank you!

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    1. Thank you so much, Jenny. Sometimes it's hard for me to find that optimism... I write these posts to help me find it!

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  8. I like this idea of starting something new the first day of each month. It may end up starting to go through all my accumulations and pick what has true meaning. I am glad you have found a new love/







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  9. I'm so glad you are so happy. Now I'm curious about the Mrs. Google Map Lady because someone in a Facebook group referred to Mr. Google and I pointed out that there is no Mr. Google. (I often wonder why people don't just look in a dictionary first, and why they refer to Google as if it's an actual reference source.) On the other hand, I do refer to my GPS as if it's a female person instructing me.

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    1. Funny that there is no Mr. Google! And I recently read a book that generated some comedy from one elderly character frequently referring to getting information "from the Google."

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  10. Thanks for coming back to visit! It feels good for me to be back blogging after some time away.

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